Reconnecting with Your Estranged Adult Child

by Tina Gilbertson, LPC

You may wish to read/purchase this book if you want to:

  • Consider how your child might be feeling about the relationship
  • Learn how the author defines estrangement
  • Learn about the major factors adult children say contribute to “distancing behaviors” from parents
  • Learn how your emotional needs for validation may be a factor causing estrangement with your child
  • Learn how to “re-parent” your child
  • Learn how to effectively communicate with your child
  • Learn how to meet your child’s needs emotionally
  • Learn how boundaries are normal, necessary components of our lives
  • Provide validation for your child
  • Learn how, when, and frequency of contact in your attempt to reconcile
  • Learn what not to say in written communications
  • Read sample written positive communications with adult children
  • Explore apologies – the good ones and written examples
  • Read about the “rule of 10” when attempting reconciliation with your child


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